Correcting Children’s Grammar

I’m taking a slightly different approach to my weekly 5 Minute Grammar post this week! While adults make lots of silly grammar mistakes that irritate me, I love the mistakes my kids make (within reason)…

The focus of my Master’s degree was on second language acquisition. Part of my learning process was also to think about how we acquire our first language. If we could learn a second language as easily as our first language, we’d be set!

Think about it, we don’t really learn our first language. We absorb it. Inevitably, as children’s young brains  sort out all the nuances of languages (and there is a TON to learn), they make a lot of mistakes. Here are some of the mistakes my own children make that crack me up:

Instead of saying “I won’t,” my kids say, “I willn’t.” Makes perfect sense to me! (Why is it won’t anyway? That doesn’t follow the normal contraction rule…)

Another very common mistake kids make is with irregular forms of anything. Instead of, “I ate my dinner,” they say “I eated my dinner.” Most often, English past tenses are formed by adding -ed. The exceptions cause trouble while kids learn them. But I rarely hear a grown-up make a mistake with past tense.

My 5 year old son is currently messing up MUCH and MANY. Instead of saying “How many toys should I pick up?” he says, “How much toys should I pick up?” This particular mistake really bothers me. And I’m having a hard time getting past it. Hence this post… :-)

While I enjoy the silly words they create like punkman for pumpkin and hunormous  (and honestly willn’t), there comes a time when I start to correct. I don’t want them saying I seen it and I done it and probably not even willn’t forever.

But, I don’t call them out and say they’re wrong (except with the much and many thing…). Instead, I usually redirect by modeling the correct word choice.

When my daughter says “I eated my dinner,” I form a question emphasizing the wrong word: “You ATE your dinner?” That way, she can hear the correct form and gets a second shot to form the right response without me calling her out, per se. This is called modeling. And normally, it’s all that’s required to fix minor problems.

However, with the much and many, redirecting and modeling is getting me nowhere. So, I’ve started explaining to my 5 year old the difference between count and non-count nouns.  (Are you curious? Or, do you know the difference?) Yes, it’s a little over his head…and he gives me funny looks. But persistence is paying off – I’ve been working on this with him all summer and I think he’s finally starting to get it. Whew.

Do you correct your kids’ grammar mistakes? What’s your favorite wrong thing that they say?

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...

About Michelle

Welcome! I'm Michelle. My family has been living in Eastern Iowa for 6 years now and my blog shares our attempts to create a homestead where we can live a green, sustainable, frugal and fun life. Thanks for visiting and please come back.

Comments

  1. We never got ‘willn’t’ from ours but we get ‘amn’t’ which cracks me up.

  2. Logan says “I be stuck”, it totally cracks me up! He also calls the sunrise the sunset (he’s seen more of those). I was trying to explain and now he says the sunset is rising. LOL!

  3. Ryan says,”Fridgederator” instead of refrigerator. Wes modeled for this for him just the other day, and Ryan repeated it correctly. This nearly broke my heart! I don’t know that if I am ready for him to give up “Fridgederator” just yet!

  4. Interesting to know that there’s a name for what I’ve been doing instinctively (modeling).

    Kevin adds -ed to everything but but in addition to sometimes adding that incorrectly, he also pronounces it incorrectly! He puts an emphasis on it… “I pickED it up.” (correct addition but incorrectly pronouned) I laugh inside but try to model the correct way to say it.

  5. Ian used to call powder “pow-WOO.” Of course I encouraged this because I thought it was just too funny. My DH mentioned that we might want to correct him some time before puberty. So I “corrected” Ian by saying, “pow-der, -der, -der, powder,” and he replied, “-der, -der, -der, pow-WOO!”

  6. I love “willn’t” BTW. It makes total sense. :-)

  7. Jay still slips up once and a while and say “prenzulls” for pretzels. I love it.

    And Ava Jane says “Fast Forward Food” for fast food. That one cracks me up too.

Speak Your Mind

*


7 − = four

CommentLuv badge